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    The Top 10 Cognitive Disorders

    January 10, 2018

     

     

     

    The Top 10 Cognitive Disorders

     

    All or Nothing Thinking: Seeing things as black-or-white, right-or-wrong with nothing in-between. Essentially, if I’m not perfect then I am a failure. That relationship didn’t go to the next level so it was a complete waste of time.

    • There’s no point in playing if I’m not 100% in shape.

    • They didn’t show. They are completely unreliable!

     

    Overgeneralization: Using words like always, never in relation to a single event or experience.

    • I’ll never find someone who treats me the way I deserve.

    • She always does that…

     

    Minimizing or Magnifying (Catastrophizing): Seeing things as dramatically more or less important than they actually are.

    Often creating a “catastrophe” that follows.

    • Because I forgot to send that email my boss will never trust me again. I won’t get that raise and my wife will leave me!

    • Because the boss publicly thanked her, she’ll get that promotion, not me. Even though I had a great performance review and just won an industry award.

     

    “Shoulds”: Using “should”, “need to”, “must”, “ought to” to motivate oneself, then feeling guilty when you don’t follow through. (or anger and resentment when someone else does follow through).

    • I should have finished the appraisal this weekend.

    • They ought to have been more considerate of my feelings.

    • They should know that would have upset me!

     

    Labelling: Attaching a negative label to yourself or someone else following a single event.

    • I didn’t stand up for myself. I’m such a wimp!

    • What an idiot, he should have seen that coming a mile away!

     

    Jumping to Conclusions: Mind-Reading: Making negative assumptions without evidence or factual support. Your friend is pre-occupied and you don’t bother to find out why. You’re thinking:

    • He still hasn’t forgiven me for missing his birthday celebration.

    • She’s coming up with lame excuses because she doesn’t want to go out anymore.

     

    Fortune Telling: Making negative predictions about the future without evidence or factual support.

    • There aren’t many eligible singles in my area to date. (even though there are plenty of great, available people all around you).

    • No-one understands me. I am so different from everybody else. (even though you have supportive friends).

     

    Discounting the positive: Not acknowledging the positive. Saying anyone could have done it or insisting that your positive actions and qualities, or achievements don’t count.

    • That doesn’t count. Anyone could have done it.

    • I’ve only cut back from smoking 40 cigarettes a day to 10. It doesn’t count because I’m still a smoker.

     

    Blame and Personalization: Blaming yourself when you weren’t entirely responsible or blaming others and denying your role in the situation.

    • If only I hadn’t said that, they wouldn’t have…

    • If only she hadn’t yelled at me, I wouldn’t have been angry and wouldn’t have…

     

    •Emotional Reasoning: I feel therefore I am. Assuming that a feeling is true without digging deeper to see if it is accurate. Many falsely refer to this as intuition.

     

     

     

    Dr. Andre Blaylock

    #getblaylocked

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